Breakups are never easy; they can be really painful if you consider the relationship to be a perfect one. There are times when you are not willing to give up, no matter how bad things are. And you should definitely try to salvage the relationship if you think that it is worth the effort. Would you really want to invest that effort in winning back your ex? Do you want to bring the love of your life back again? Yes, you can definitely try if your estranged partner really matters to you. Here are a few ways that you can win your ex-lover back for good:
1. Start by evaluating what went wrong
The first step that you should take is to evaluate what really went wrong in the first place. Try to understand the events that led to the culmination of the relationship, whether it was you or the other one who did the damage or it just happened. Knowing the cause would perhaps help you find the right solution and understand if you would really want to pursue your ex once again.
2. Disconnect completely
Before you initiate your attempts to win back your ex-partner, disconnect with them completely. And completely means completely- no calls, no texts, no mutual gatherings, not even checking out their social profiles. Distance will give you both a clearer picture and probably fuel the desire to be back together, if feelings are really there.
3. Give them time
Patience and restraint are the two magic words for those trying to overcome a breakup with the hope of starting afresh. Give them as much time as they want because they may also be doing the same. If two people are genuinely in love, they make all the conscious and subconscious efforts to win each other back. While you are waiting for them, pamper and love yourself so that your attraction quotient reaches a new high.
4. Set aside your ego
The renowned relationships coach Giordana Toccaceli identifies ego as the biggest reason that people do not come back together, even if they want to do it. Set aside your ego and make efforts to reconnect with your ex once things have cooled down. If interested, they will definitely make a move. Approach them via social media or have a mutual friend to break the ice between you. Who knows, there may still be raging fire beneath the ice!
5. Start afresh with fresh ideas
If your ex will be genuinely keen, they will throw signals to you. Be watchful enough to understand these signals and make the right move at the right time. Get into your romantic avatar and start pursuing them with fresh ideas to bring back life into your relationship. Make things exciting for them as if this is the first time and they’ll be back in your arms sooner than you expect.
Salvaging relationships and bringing back your ex can be a challenge but it is also an exciting prospect. Be willing to take the challenge if you really love your partner and would not want to lose them at any cost.